Life is a roller coaster, I have come to realize that lately. However, you must be open to communicating and planning ahead of time. I don't mind at all Life is too short to always be serious. I want pleasure that I can share with my straight male friends I am into threesomes, foursomes, groups, oral, bi play, role play and voyeurism.
Ideally someone who doesn't live too far away, maybe the occasional overnight or the odd evening or afternoon.